Friday, May 28, 2010

Endless Cycle Ch. 12


"What are you doing?"
"I am drinking."
"Why are you drinking?"
"So that I may forget."
"Forget what?"
"Forget that I am ashamed."
"Ashamed of what?"
"Ashamed of drinking!"


The Little Prince finds it hard to understand the tippler's logic. The tippler continues this perpetuating cycle that really gets the tippler no where.

Sometimes people find themselves following the traditions of religion yet they don't really believe in many of the doctrines. It is usually because that was how they were raised and the one thing that lingers or pulls them back is the guilt. Which is also an unhealthy cycle and way to go about religion. Religion shouldn't make us feel ashamed of our humanity but rather make us aware of it and what we can do to make us feel better about our human nature.

Some may find themselves going to church every Sunday to feel better about the sins they've committed throughout the week. Others may go to confession to receive the proper penance.



What do these rituals really accomplish spiritually though? Do these become crutches to lean on when we feel like giving into our human nature? Creating the same perpetual cycle as the tippler's?

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Get Over Yourself! Ch. 11


"Ah!Ah!I am about to receive a visit from an admirer!"

To all conceited men all other men are admirers. The conceited man will only hear words of praise.

Have you ever tried to converse with someone who was completely self involved? When I think of a conceited man I always look to one of my favorite Disney movies the Beauty and the Beast. Gaston is this narcissistic character who is completely full of himself,only hears what he wants, and expects to get what he wants because he is such a strapping young lad.



Religion can be narcissistic at times. There is this image displayed of such piety and self righteousness and these people believe that everyone should like or respect them because of this. In doing this most new believers or people on the brink of converting will see displays of such piety and become turned off to the religion. I know this has been the case for myself personally on several occasions.

Religions are supposed to be humble and gracious but instead people, most of the time the head figures within that religion, are self-righteous assholes. Pardon my french.



No one, I mean no one likes a self-righteous asshole.

You're a Ruler of What? Ch.10

The Little Prince makes his first stop on a planet where he met a king.

"...the entire planet was crammed and obstructed by the king's magnificent ermine robe."

The Little Prince inquires who the king rules over because there are no subjects in sight. The king claims to rule over the universe but really he rules nothing. He has a false sense of authority. The Little Prince found this quite odd and left.


Most times authority points their finger down at us and we can not question that authority. My favorite example of this is from Matilda.



"Listen you little wiseacre: I'm smart, you're dumb; I'm big, you're little; I'm right, you're wrong, and there's nothing you can do about it!"
-Mr. Wormwood

The king on the planet wasn't as bad as Mr. Wormwood but my point here is why or where does this authority come from? Who are these people actually ruling? Truth is we are our own authority. Sure people will try to tell us what to do, use intimidation, money and power, but they really will never be able to control what we personally decide to do.


Like the good old saying:



You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.

Saying Goodbye Ch.9

The Little Prince finishes a day of chores, leaving his planet in order before he decides to leave. He realizes how much he cares for the flower as he says goodbye and she tells him for the first time that she loves him too.


The Little Prince decides he needs to leave to find some answers.

Sometimes we all need to step outside of our daily routines to find answers.

Siddhartha leaves his kingdom in search of enlightenment.

Jesus wanders in the desert for 40 days.

It's not always the answer to run away from our current lives but sometimes it helps to get away from what you know to learn the things you haven't yet discovered.

The Importance of a Rose Ch.7&8



The aviator is working on his plane while the Little Prince continues to ask his never ending questions. Frustrated with the work at hand the aviator snaps at the Little Prince. The Little Prince upset and hurt with the aviators response points out that just because one person doesn't find the matter important doesn't mean it is not important at all.


This is probably one of the biggest problems in different religious views. Everyone finds their religion important thus nullifying the importance of any other religion outside of their own.

The Little Prince told the aviator of this beautiful flower unlike any of the other flowers on his planet. The flower became demanding of the Little Prince and he attended her every need but soon became frustrated with her demands.



"Flowers are so inconsistent! But I was far too young to know how to love her..."

Much like any relationship it requires nurturing and much attention in order for it to continue to grow. Sometimes relationships seem quite demanding and can become frustrating when nothing is reciprocated.

40 Sunsets to Happiness



In chapter six the Little Prince talks about he was able to watch 40 sunsets in one day on his planet just by moving his chair a few steps.


"You know--one loves the sunset, when one is so sad..."


When we are sad we always want something to look forward to. Sometimes our sadness causes is to fall into bad habits or addictions. Much like my previous post on good seeds vs. bad seeds, during sadness is one of the harder times to distinguish good from bad choices. We want instant gratification or comfort and will do most anything to feel better.

I think religion plays a big role into the decisions we make when sadness takes over. I have to say it's one of the better influences on one's decisions during a time of grief. People find comfort in their beliefs and have faith that during their time of difficulty everything will work out for the best because there is a bigger picture or divine purpose as to why things have happened.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Good Seeds Bad Seeds: LP Ch.5

"Children watch out for the baobabs!"

In chapter five the Little Prince describes treacherous plants called baobabs. He explains how good seeds and bad seeds are on his planet. The good seeds turn into good plants and the bad seeds turn into bad plants. If the bad plants continue to grow they can ruin and even destroy the planet.

There are always good and bad seeds being planted throughout our lives. It is our responsibility to weed out the bad seeds before they become treacherous to ourselves and others.



We all struggle with the good and the bad. Distinguishing between good and bad is always hard at first. The Little Prince describes how when the seeds first sprout up it is still hard to differentiate the good plants from the bad plants. So the first step to weeding out the bad plants is learning how to recognize them. Usually we have someone teaching us right from wrong, good from bad.

Of all the aspects of religion I truly respect the ethic/moral values it can instill in someone. Although these sometimes get lost or overrun by rules it is better to have some sort of moral values than none at all. These ethics or morals would be the good seeds and sin would be the bad seeds. Religions, not all but most, tend to focus on what the sins are instead of focusing on what good decisions to make. Although they do talk about what good deeds need to be done people end up worrying about what they shouldn't be doing.



"Now, no matter what the mullah teaches, there is only one sin, only one. And that is theft. Every other sin is a variation of theft... When you kill a man, you steal a life. You steal his wife's right to a husband, rob his children of a father. When you tell a lie, you steal someone's right to the truth. When you cheat, you steal the right to fairness... There is no act more wretched than stealing, Amir."

This passage from The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini is one of my favorites to describe a universal moral code. Amir's father describes to him that regardless of what their cultural religion teaches theft is the only sin that we commit. I find this statement very true and useful in regards to my daily decisions. I constantly think about what I might be stealing from others. Sometimes depending on the decision you can even end up stealing from yourself.

Neglecting your health you steal time from yourself. Staying in an abusive relationship you steal your mental,physical, and emotional health from yourself.



Pulling weeds is one of my favorite things to do. Weed pulling is stress relieving and is great time to myself, not to mention a great workout. When it comes to pulling weeds within my life it's not very stress relieving at first and not very enjoyable. Making decisions as to what would be best for my mind, body, heart and soul is very difficult. I have to say I have made some super tough decisions. The hardest decisions I've made are deciding on whether certain people should be a part of my life. I have to say as hard as those decisions were they definitely have improved my life. So in the end making difficult decisions can be stress relieving.


So Watch Out For The Baobabs! Learn how to recognize the weeds in your life. Learn when and how to remove those weeds before they become too destructive.